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Your one of a kind life
I’d love to work with you. . .

Your One of A Kind Life is Possible

Imagine a life where you pursue the things you’re interested in, boldly seek your own adventures, take the class, start the business, write the book, go on the trip. Imagine a life that’s the original design it was intended to be, rather than the shadowy imitation you’ve been settling for. Are you ready? Let’s do this.

real talk:

Feeling like your life isn’t quite what you’d like? Do you long for something more? Are you plagued by the coulda, woulda, shouldas?

I’ve been advising and guiding smart, thoughtful women just like you since 2007; women who are craving more from their life, days filled with spaciousness, beauty, and creative expression.

But sometimes you second guess yourself about whether or not you’re really meant to have what you want, and that can feel discouraging, and disheartening.

THE BEST NEWS? when it comes to designing your life, YOU DON’T HAVE TO GO IT ALONE IF YOU DON’T WANT TO.

Feel like you want to make changes, but. . .

> you’re afraid

. . . it’s too late
. . . it won’t work out
. . . you’ll fail

> you’re uncertain

. . . you’re probably too old, anyway
. . . you don’t have what it takes, right?
. . . you can’t possibly really have All.The.Things.

> you’ll never find enough

. . . time
. . . energy – you often feel worn to a frazzle
. . . resources

if you can relate to any of this, take heart.
I decided, then & there, I wasn’t going to settle for an unlived life any longer

In November, 2018, my town burned down. Loss offered me a gift I decided to take.


It was at that moment, after years of pretending to be anyone other than who I truly was, of doing work that only partly satisfied me, and keeping a lid on my creativity, that I decided I couldn’t wait any longer to have the kind of life I’d always imagined. Full stop.

My life didn’t transform overnight. In fact, the next 2 to 3 years brought more challenges, more grief, more transitions. It’s been a journey, that’s for sure, but one that’s been worth it. And one I’m still on.

I don’t have all the answers, but what I’ve come to know for sure is that when you trust your heart and your desires, the life you create can be better than your dreams.

creating a life you really love doesn’t require a tragedy. it does, though, require saying ‘yes’.

Ingredients For A One of A Kind Life

YOU LEARN TO LOVE &
TRUST YOURSELF

Trusting yourself is part of being sovereign in your life. That’s how you claim what’s true for you.

YOU’RE GUIDED BY
YOUR DESIRES

Your desires are unique to you. They are life’s little breadcrumbs. Did you know that everything you want wants you back?

YOU GO AFTER
YOUR DREAMS

Always follow your heart. It won’t mislead you. Your dreams are meant to be your everyday reality.

your life is like a house . . .

And just like a house, the life you really want may just need a little redecoration. Or you might feel it’s going to take some renovation to really get the look & style you’re after. Once in a while, there’s nothing for it. A full on tear down and build it up again is the only way to achieve that house of true belonging that claims your heart.

Just like a house, your life should have good flow, lots of light, be beautiful, have a structure and infrastructure that makes living there a joy.
It should be a reflection of what’s true for you and what you love. It should be a safe place where you can take refuge from the world, and a place where you can cultivate your dreams.
Wouldn’t you love to have a life where who you are, what you do, and how you live are the most authentic version of You?

if a guiding hand would help you get there,
then I’d love to work with you.
check out the options below. . .
Decide which feels right for you.
And remember, your one of a kind life is waiting. . .

Discover What’s Possible
When You Have a
Personal Advisor

Areas of Expertise

01. Self-discovery

Getting to know ourselves is essential to a well-lived life. Discovering how to love & forgive yourself, getting reacquainted with your values, beliefs, & priorities; it’s all part of getting in touch with your authentic self. This is not about fixing you, or developing you. I’ll help you step back from the culture of personal development and give yourself the gift of acceptance. Delight in your imperfectly perfect, beautiful self.

02. Mindset & Beliefs

How we think about ourselves and our place in the world has a lot to do with how we experience life. What used to work may no longer be adequate. I can intuitively sense what’s running the show behind the scenes. If that’s not working anymore, then I’ll help you gently & gracefully make the updates that feel more like who you are now versus who you used to be.

03. Big Transitions

Transitions are the space between what was and what will be. They can be brief, like a doorway, or like a long passageway, taking many steps to cross. I think that’s what life’s big transitions feel like – a long, sometimes dark passageway. I can help you navigate as you go. I’ll give you the tools, resources & support that can help you turn your big transition into powerful transformation.

04. Organization & Projects

Having an organized life means that Harmony & Order have pride of place, and Beauty can gain admittance. It doesn’t mean getting rid of everything – unless you want to. I’ll help you create systems and strategies for your life & home that are custom designed for who you are.

Have a project you’ve been putting off? Project planning is one of my superpowers!

05. Creative Biz Start-Up

There’s never been a better time to indulge your creative urges and take your kitchen table talent into the marketplace. Need to brainstorm, see if your idea has traction? Already have a some success but not sure what’s next? I’ve worked in specialty retail, as well as the online space. I’ll help you make sure you have a solid foundation to build from.

The Refresh

fifty minute zoom session

Need a blueprint for moving forward? Would some clarity and accountability help you start creating a one of a kind life of your own?

Maybe you have a niggling feeling this is your chance to go after a dream & you want to get it right. Or you want to start a project, but it feels daunting. Perhaps an opportunity you’ve hoped for is finally available, but you’re hesitating. Together we’ll sort it out.

When we work together, you’ll receive my best strategies, advice, and ideas, personalized to you. One of my super powers is seeing the through lines in your life & helping you pull them all together in a way that makes sense; you’ll see what’s true for you & worth building on, and what you can let go of.

Our session will give you inspiration and clarity, help you create a way forward, and provide the direction and gentle encouragement you need.

At the end of the session, if you feel like working together further would benefit you, then we can discuss the options & come up with a custom fit..

I’m so looking forward to meeting you!

Timeline

One session

Details

$49 USD

Book your session today

The Remodel

6 session package

Does the idea of having someone by your side from start to finish appeal to you? Want more guidance and support for implementing your life design blueprint?

This option is a great fit if you’re not so keen on DIY & you know you need help getting going. In these personalized, private sessions, we’ll choose our focus from the areas of who you are, how you want to be living, and what you want to be doing in your life. You may also have a specific goal or project in mind.

You’ll get my best strategies, advice, and ideas, personalized to you.

My commitment is to be the support you need and give you the guidance that you’re after.

One of my super powers is seeing the through lines in your life & helping you pull them all together in a way that makes sense; you’ll see what’s true for you & worth building on, and what you can let go of.

Our sessions will give you inspiration and clarity, help you create a way forward, and provide the direction and gentle encouragement you need.

I’m so looking forward to meeting you!

Timeline

Six Sessions

Details

$249

book your sessions today

The Rebuild

custom designed for you

Sometimes life goes sideways & takes you with it. I know.

If your life has seen a Big Change or crisis, & you’re determined to use this crossroads as the opportunity that it is, then let’s roll up our sleeves & begin.

A rebuild means going down to the foundation & starting again. With a solid foundation, you can build something that has the potential to be even better than your dreams.

In between sessions you can soak in what you’ve learned and decided to take action on.

My aim is to help you learn how to live your life instead of trying to constantly manage your life.

One of my super powers is seeing the through lines in your life & helping you pull them all together in a way that makes sense; you’ll see what’s true for you & worth building on, and what you can let go of.

There’s nothing better than feeling you’ve found your way home to your place of belonging.

I’m so looking forward to meeting you!

Timeline

TBD

Details

Please Inquire

let’s design your life

Sweet, sweet love. . .

  • “. . .feeling grateful for some juicy good moments with Paula Tarrant today. WOW. I feel slightly like I was called out, split open and put back together again in a new configuration. Some parts got rearranged. Some stuff got dropped. All lovely, easy, and gentle. No trauma. New phase of alignment.”
    Claire Sierra
  • I cannot tell you how much your focused, caring healing coaching has done for me. You have a way of getting to the heart of the matter in an easy, relaxed manner, drawing out issues and concerns that otherwise would have stayed buried and kept me “stuck”. You really are a healer, and I appreciate your gift so much. Life can be successful in body, mind, spirit and prosperity. You opened the door in my life, shed healing light in my soul, so I can make that happen. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
    carole c.
  • Paula came into my life during a time of chaos. It was a time of confusion. I was about to change [real estate] brokers, but which one was right for me? There were so many choices, so many questions. Paula helped me organize my thoughts and get really clear about what I needed from a broker. It was through her coaching that I was able to make the right decision for me!
    gina e.
  • Paula was inspiring, loving, and supportive every step of the way. She was always gentle and direct. Before I worked with Paula, I didn’t have the tools or know how to create the possibility to make my best lie come true. Now I do, thanks to Paula. I have had the courage to take a look at myself and a newfound strength to face my fears and make changes in my life. I know this is because of her.
    debbie friedman
  • Paula is just a godsend. She truly cares about your development and success in life. She is a wonderful coach who has touched my life. All will benefit from Paula’s coaching and insight, both personally and professionally.
    michelle hovey
  • You are a master coach who breathed life into me. It’s true, your voice and words are life forming for those who are “stuck”! It makes me able to stand and live in my own space and truly life my Real Life! Just as beautiful as when you said it!
    loranda hellen-thomas
  • Time spent with Paula Tarrant as a life coach has brought an energy to my spirit that I was unable to harness alone. Feeling empowered as I did, I found myself sharing some of what I had learned with my mom. Six months later my mom called me, asking if I remembered sharing some of Paula’s coaching thoughts with her. I had forgotten about the conversation until that moment.
    She then relates how she had made a goal to apply the ideas I’d shared with her to her relationship with my father. She expressed how happy they were, and both felt the previous six months of their near forty year marriage had been the most meaningful.
    The coaching sessions had proven to be invaluable not just to myself but had renewed the spirit of some of my loved ones.
    dolly s.

You might be wondering. . .

Is This Right For You?

  • You’re exhausted from wrangling your time, obsessing about efficiency, and striving to be productive. You know there’s got to be a better way to live.
  • You see other women with really creative lives and wish that were you.
  • You feel like you’ve been settling, year after year, and you know there’s got to be something more.
  • You’re tired of letting Fear run your life and make your decisions.
  • You could use some loving encouragement & fresh perspective to get you going.

How does this sound?

HERE’S WHAT YOU CAN LOOK FORWARD TO. . .
1

You look forward to each day, knowing that whatever happens, you can meet it with grace & confidence.

2

Your long held dreams are becoming part of your everyday life, and you couldn’t be happier!

3

You no longer let Fear run things. You trust yourself to make your decisions & choices.

4

You celebrate the sweetness of Life rather than try to manage your life.

5

Your days are filled with discovery and exploration, savoring the Beauty that is all around you.

is that a yes?

Book Your Best Option


Hooray! I’m celebrating with you!

You really are meant to have a life that’s original, filled with beauty and creativity.

If I can help you have more of that, then I’m honored to share part of your journey!
let’s talk!
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